I never thought I would be on here in this capacity, with my cam on. But here we are. This has been an interesting experience, meeting a variety of people. I never realized that I would be an exhibitionist (it helps that I won't show my face). I didn't come here to "discover myself" or "explore my sexuality", but I am learning and opening up to different things. As I get little attention at home, being here has been a surprising turn on and confidence booster.

• All are welcome. Just be decent

  I'm glad to have as many visitors in my room as want to be here. Stay, watch, make conversation or sit quietly. It's all good. But if you have requests, consult the tip menu or let's do private. I don't take orders.

• Apologies, just in case

  As I am doing this stuff, secret from my family, I occasionally have to log out abruptly. If it happens during paid time, I will make it up later.

  Sometimes I have the sound off and am in a different window, so I may not hear that I got tokens. I always am thankful, and will say so when I realize it.

• My tags, explained

  
  

  As you'll read further down, I think tags should be accurate, not just the most popular ones. It doesn't help you or the viewers. You can't be #redhead and #blonde at the same time. Here is why I chose the tags I have

  • #smallcock - it may not be micro, but it's below average. There isn't any suitable #mildlybelowaveragecock tag I could use. This tag was intended more as a caution, but seems to be a draw for some.
  
  
  • #exhibitionist - I'm here, aren't I? Under right circumstances, I'll get naked (hence #nude). But this is relevant to the next tag:
  
  
  • #shy - How can I also be shy and an exhibitionist? Because the one thing (so far) I won't show is my face.
  
  
  • #married, #cut - self-explanatory.
  
  
  • #skinny - I'm not emaciated, but I not heavy and I'm not bulky with muscles.
  
  
  • #new - New is a relative term. Been on the site for a while, but been doing this with the cam only recently.
  
  
  
  

• HA HA HA HA HA

  My auto-generated profile at MyBro.tv. I make how much?? I do what???

  The content here and on other sites has got to go. DMCA requests will follow. But that one was pretty funny.

• My Camifesto (Cam + manifesto, for non-English speakers): A few things I learned along the way

  I've been on both sides of the cam, as a viewer and as whatever I am doing here now. I learned how I think models should treat visitors and how visitors should treat models. In no particular order, some things I have concluded:

  • Kicking out "freeloaders" guarantees they will never ever tip. Ever. And if they are Basic or higher, you kicked out someone with a history of tipping.
  
  
  • Plus, these "freeloaders" are still valuable. They are increasing the number of people in your room, which makes your room look more active, and encourages more people to come in. (That said, viewer, the model does not owe you anything for your presence.)
  
  
  • If you don't want viewers to see you nude without tipping, don't show yourself nude in public.
  
  
  • Thank tippers for any and every tip. Some tippers have a lot to give, some a little. Either way, this is luxury spending - it's money they didn't have to give you. Not every tip should be enough to put you through law school.
  
  
  • You don't have to be nude to get people in your room. And if you always are, no one will need to tip to see you that way. Don't give away one of your best assets. You can dress suggestively to get the viewers. Tight clothing is hot, but don't discount loose clothing, that looks like it is this close to coming off.
  
  
  • Tease. Guys think they want instant gratification, but it drives them crazy when girls tease. They secretly love it, even if it's a secret to them.
  
  
  • No, the viewer doesn't want your Snapchat two seconds after entering your room.
  
  
  • Hi. I'm fine and you? My name is X. I'm from Y. I'm Z years old. I think that covers it. We all know "how's your mood?" or "what are you looking for here?" is next. Actual interaction or originality go a long way. And read his responses. I can't count how many times I've gotten "I'm happy to hear that" when I say I've had a bad day.
  
  
  • Don't use hashtags that aren't relevant to you. It may widen the net, but you're better off using them for words that relate to you, so people who really want you are can find it. (This will likely not end until CB allows negative filtering.)
  
  
  • You, as the model, are the entertainment. Don't wait to be entertained. If I, as a viewer, see you looking bored and looking at your phone, I know I will be bored. Next room!
  
  
  • Viewers visit multiple rooms at once. It may be why they aren't talking in your room. Don't be surprised or act jealous. Someone is probably other ignoring models to watch you.
  
  
  • Unless music is specifically your thing, turn it down. People rather hear you enjoying yourself than the music.
  
  
  • Begging and sob stories about being poor aren't sexy. I know they are often real (this is not many people's first choice for a career), but I am still distrustful. You can be real and tell people your story, but don't open with it. It doesn't make me want to tip, it makes me never want to come back.
  
  
  • When a viewer says they can't spend any (or more) on you because they don't have tokens, but you know they do, let it go. They're politely saying they don't have tokens for you. They may be saving them. Either way, they're not ready to spend on you. Harassing them is not going to make them want to tip you. When you buy something at the store and they give you back change, they don't harass for not spending all your money there.
  
  
  • If you're doing a private, close your cam on the other sites. There are few things more disrespectful to your customer than letting others watch free for what he is paying by the minute.
  
  

  For Viewers

  
  
  • Guys, don't send dick pics without explicit permission. Girls, permission not required to send nudes.
  
  
  • If you go into a foreigner's room, don't insult their country or their leaders. If you're from the same country, it may not be offensive, but discussing politics is generally a bad idea.
  
  
  • Don't make requests without tipping. People who do this are the exception to the no kicking/banning rule.
  
  

  More to follow...

• When to find me here

  Too often.

  I come here at my leisure, but that is typically most nights 12:30am to 3/4am New York (EDT). If I were smart and responsible, I'd be off by 2am, the latest. But lucky for you, I'm not.

  Occasionally, I am here for brief visits during the daytime.